So I'm gonna get preachy here for a moment. After a few interesting days recently with someone who is leading a pretty miserable existance, I feel the need to climb on my soapbox.
I have a people person job, no doubt about it. I have multiple opportunities every day to affect someone's life, (in a good or bad way, but mostly good LOL) so I'm lucky in a way. I get to make a difference and see the reward of that action. You the average Joe may not have it so easy to make a difference in someone's life. I'm not talking about family, I'm talking about strangers. There are sooo many "needy" people out there and I'm not talking about needy in the monitary sense. I'm talking needy in spirit. When you're hating on life as we all do at times, isn't it
nice when someone does something unexpected for you? Someone recently gave me .40 when I was short at the coffee shop, that was very unexpected and very appreciated as it literally was my last 2 bucks. Some blessed soul at Costco took pity on me and let me go ahead of them when I only had milk and then the guy in front of the guy that let me go ahead, let me go ahead of him too! Bless those two, I'd have been in line for 20 minutes at least. These are the kind of things I'm talking about. If your
miserable if life, do something nice for someone and it WILL make you feel better. Volunteer somewhere. It doesn't cost you anything. Go to a nursing home with your favorite book and read to a resident there. Think of what kind of difference you'd make in that person's life. Volunteer for meals on wheels. Make and package dinners for low income seniors. You don't have to drive them but you'd be an asset to the organization just helping with the preparing of the meals. There are sooo many things you can do for your fellow human beings. Maybe if we did more of these things we'd all be happier in life. I'm tired of the bemoaning of society as a whole. Get off your ass and do something to CHANGE it! Don't wait for the next person to do it. Get your kids involved too, show them that we do things for others because it's the
right thing to do. I gotta tell ya, more and more colleges and universities are actually
requiring prospective students to do volunteer work. If you start your kids doing it now, it won't be a burden to do it then, when they may need to.
I know people are busy, I KNOW busy but there isn't any reason you can't find a couple of hours in your week or month to do something. Do you need suggestions? Email me and I'll give you suggestions. You don't need to commit to every week or anything. How about once a month? Every other month.
Do something. Make it a priority to do something today, tomorrow or this week. DO IT! I promise you'll get more back from it than you know. You'll make a difference in someones life and remember, what goes around comes around.